6/03/2008

To downplay awareness of kids birthday

As the doting over and used the pet, now on the birthday of particular interest to kids health. Birthday when the parents will inevitably have to put this or that kind of request, in addition to birthday gift a matter of course indispensable, there are many kids bent on inviting guests, who will be birthday a few good students to go to the store to eat at home or restaurant meal. The author believes that the kids of this growing awareness is the birthday of weakening of need. When the annual birthday gifts to the kids to buy, or to increase the number of kids Chidun Fan Jige Cai, from an economic point of view, do nothing. But this child to develop the material and vanity is not the no attention. Some children were students invited to attend a private banquet birthday, the birthday of their turn, they feel that they have not please other people is absolutely does not work, this "has to have to" enable children to develop Taishoudajiao, comparisons between the style, Whether the normal learning, or to cultivate good habits are very negative. Dilute the children's birthday awareness, or clarifying the main reason for a certain ability to think of the kids health, they should tell the birthday is a very normal ordinary things, the child should be to concentrate on learning, not to old birthday thing. At the same time, parents should also perceptions of their actions, not the kids birthday when Xixingyuse to exaggerate too much, not specifically for this shopping Jiacai. In addition, the birthday of the way for their kids should also be changed, the kids birthday can be taken during commemorative photos, the kids talk about the past interesting, go park, or send a commemorative significance of the small toys, etc., or re-ceremony hosted by the practice of Is not desirable

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