6/01/2008

Kids in the early performance of inferiority

The avoidance response to the contest: the kids health of inferiority in the race occasions very much like to win, they could deny their own strength and that they certainly will not be successful. Therefore, such a kids is always competition as far as possible avoid occasions. Others neglect, jealousy: the strong sense of inferiority hearts of children although there are "low three people," the feelings, but in order to alleviate their psychological pressure, often manifested as contrary to belittle others. These kids often have a strong sense of jealousy. The attacks of their own: Zibaoziqi for performance, not on their own treasure, and sometimes their exposure to dangerous situations are. If blame, they often use "I was not on the people" as a shield. Criticized the treatment of particularly sensitive: the strong sense of inferiority of kids. often accompanied by anxiety, anxiety, fear and other negative emotions. They often can not accept negative, the rating is too low, shows a morbid psychology of self-protection, on other people's words and deeds will not make a normal reaction, or crying a row, or extremely negative. The recognition of over-reaction: the strong sense of inferiority children, although feel that they have failed, but very much hope that the proper performance of their own. They are often not the way to praise others, to reduce the inferiority complex because of the depths of the soul suffered torture

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